a grandfather story.

can you remember the times when you're feeling down and you think, "shit! i need a friend to talk to." and then you call up your best friend and blabbered all your problems to her/him? what will he/she do after listening to your sad story?
1. praying for you silently, hoping you're alright. or
2. think of ways to cheer you up. or
3. agitate you even more by agreeing and adding on how evil that person is. or
4. put up a post on his/her blog to publicly announce to the world that you're having some problems and at the same time conveniently critising the guy/girl that hurt you, AND THINKING THAT'S WHAT A BEST FRIEND SHOULD DO?

i bet many people have experienced this scenario before. if you're a spiteful person, you may be delighted with what you're friend have done. but for normal people, that's something called bitchy, and that's no way to solve a problem. so if your best friend have done something like that, please think twice before picking up the phone and dialing his/her no. 'cos MAYBE, that "best friend" is actually only a best fiend.