Tick Tock, Tick Tock, Dang

It is finally sinking in.

It's the last day of #projecthappygradfriends and #memorycapsuling. I can't fathom what will happen later, but face it I will. It's very strange this semester, that on the day of two big final presentations, I'm not thinking about the lack of preparations for the presentations or what would happen during them. The only thing that's on my mind now are my friends. That moment of truth that today will be the final time I'll be experiencing school with my buddies is really hard to swallow. The mental images of saying goodbyes are killing me. The preparation to say goodbye is the worst process I can hope for. But in a few hours time, it is going to play out however I try to deny it. This is reality. I can't stop it, nor can I force myself to embrace it.

Reynold made a collage for me just before I wrote this. I saw it 5am in the morning. I could not bring myself to go back to sleep again, for sleep robs all the little time I have left in this moment, the moment where I'm still studying in the same school with them. All's fine, I can continue working on the prototype to give my final contributions to their school lives.

I hope everything will go as planned later. It's nothing to do with the presentations.

Update:

Here I Am, Where Nobody Knows. Here I'll Be, When Everyone Goes.

Here I am, where nobody knows.
Here I'll be, when everyone goes.
It's like the same thing all over again.
Melancholy coursing through my veins.

The longing that can't be said, nothing to do with them.
It's no one's fault that we're parting.
It's just the way we met.
We were merely navigating the crossroads.

Isn't it strange that I feel so much,
Without knowing whether they are as touched.
I am strong, but strong is strong.
Strong is nothing but resistance to belong.

Madness this world, topsy-turvy.
I was here and now I'm not.
They were here and they are not.
I didn't care but now I'm lost.

Everyone goes, eventually me too.
For now, let me.
Because here I am, not for naught.
I feel, for people, I am, I saw.

- Dedicated to my graduating friends of 2014.
L.Shijie


It's been so long since I've used this blog. Now it's become a desolate little cyber space. Which is totally fine by me. Just a little sweep of the dry leaves and clearing up of the cob webs and I can crawl up into a little ball at a little corner of this space, paste unpoetic poems and ugly posters on the walls, or simply shout at the top of my lungs, because it wouldn't matter. I can be totally emo, or be true to myself. Because no one would judge. And so I'll start by clearing up the mess.

The last post was more than 2 years ago? It was about gratitude. In this post to renew the blog, I shall also start with gratitude then.

Although the following people will probably not see this, I believe they can feel it already. Besides, gratitude is from the heart and doesn't need to be seen.

Thank you, the graduating Shiyun, Reynold, Regina, Shing, Nicholas, Edwin, Kai Che and Xinyi for giving me the chance to live out such a wonderful university semester. It has honestly been the best semester that I could have wished for. I have no regrets taking all the modules in Year 4 / Semester 2 of my NUS B.Comp(Communications and Media) journey even though the workload is shit, even though I have to face coding, and even though I have to face less than pleasant seminar structures and syllabus. I really appreciate all the great times that you created for me, small or large, significant or trivial, sombre or hilarious. They all contributed into the weaving of a wonderful memory for me, and I will forever remember all that we went through.

I thank Reynold specifically for influencing me to become myself. For being the catalyst to all these great memories for me. For talking to me most sincerely and giving me strength to trust myself and believe. I thank Shiyun for always being there for me. For all the late nights and late-for-class moments and for being so cheerful and spontaneous all the time. For being present in almost all of my joyous moments of this semester. More simply, for being in this semester with me. To me, you are this semester, and without you, this semester will not be the same. I thank Regina for all the crazy and fun moments and doing stupid stuff together. I love how every moment with you creates a brighter and more lasting memory for me. I thank Shing for bringing spontaneity to the next level which I absolutely cherish and love, and just being the fun-loving you. I thank Nicholas for being such a great teammate and being in the best school project group that I have ever been involved in (NM4225). I thank Edwin for your bubbly and adorable character and your never-ending antics to brighten up my day. I thank Kai Che for being a leader, a cheerleader, and a fantastic friend. Last but not least I thank Xinyi for being there to humour me and to add value to my antics in school.

When nobody understood me, these people did. Or at least they tried. They gave me so much strength such that I even dared to do a skit for a final presentation. The transformation I went through will never happen without these people.

This semester was a blockbuster. However, this blockbuster of a semester is (unofficially) ending in 3 days time. I really wish that we could create another such semester but I know it's impossible. It's hard to take it in now, because you hate to lose what you have and cherish, and to see it slowly disappearing right in front of your eyes is devastating. I would kill if I could turn back the time and get to know all of you earlier. I wish I could articulate my current feelings better and archive it here for memory capsuling, but for now I can only hope that ten years down the road, I would still have a healthy memory and remember this feeling. Because this feeling is so heartwarming and genuine. And these people too.

I would love to pen down all the epic moments we had for keepsake, but I'll leave it for later, or never, because at this current moment, 15 April 2014, 2:15 AM, the moments are still fresh in my heart, and the moments have not ended yet.

Can't say I'm looking forward to the next 3 school days, but I am. There's a bittersweet symphony playing in my heart right now.

Again, I know you guys probably wouldn't see this, but still,
Happy graduation and my best wishes.

Miss you guys already,
Shijie.

#projecthappygradfriends